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Child picking develops fears and is more likely to lie

Child picking develops fears and is more likely to lie

When we stop to think about how we want to raise our children, many of us respond that we would like to do differently than we did as a child, especially when it comes to hitting. Many fathers and mothers today have taken their tapas, belts and chineladas as a child and now realize that this is not a good way. As parents they seek dialogue, the application of consequences, choices and limits placed in a productive and respectful way.

But in some situations it seems that we do not know what to do and when we get serious, the slap appears again.

When we hit our children, they learn a few things:

  • They learn to have children. fear of the strongest, and this can go on for a long time in life
  • They learn that it is beating that they solve the difficult moments, after all this is how they see their parents solving the same moments
  • They learn that the slap is worth more than talk, talk

Crash does not help educate the child

When parents hit their children, they usually seek to control some situation, but adults in this situation are completely out of control. It is very confusing for the child to think that our lack of control that has appeared through the slap, serves to educate or control some moment.

All this confusion makes the child does not learn, after all she interrupts what she was doing because of the fright that leads, from the fear you feel. It turns out that he will hardly learn, because he does not live the natural process that every action has its consequence. When this process is interrupted, it is as if the reflection was also interrupted.

This is the big trap, because many parents think the slap works because the child actually interrupts what he was doing. But this happens with fright and not with gain of consciousness. What next? The attitude repeats itself and the tapas become more frequent. However, with the slap and with this lack of respect we started a clash that can become quite complex. After all, one wins and the other loses and the child, realizing this, also does everything to overcome this clash.

This path generates fear, distance and often even lies appear as the only way to avoid this moment , or cover. Children today enter into this clash because in some way, they do not tolerate a lack of respect, but usually their way of acting to win the clashes is through lack of respect as well. With this closed cycle, parents and children move away and communication, meeting, and respect become big hard-to-reach goals. With loving firmness, respect and applying constancy, consistency in correcting form and the consequence of their attitudes, what we find are united families, partners and children growing up with love, respect, and real education. Everyone in the act of educating. Positive education that generates growth for all. Getting the other to do something you want is not difficult. The precious thing is to realize why this person has changed his attitude. For fear, for being out of the way, or out of love, for gaining consciousness? The landscape we see on this walk depends on the places we walk. And we adults have that choice.


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