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Is orgasm the most important in a sexual relationship?

Is orgasm the most important in a sexual relationship?

Female orgasm is the intense sexual pleasure achieved by women through intercourse, masturbation or other means. It can occur in a single or multiple form and is still a subject surrounded by myths, beliefs and lack of information.

From the physiological point of view, women have innumerable sensitive areas and the female orgasm may even have different origins: clitoridian and vaginal. But it is not limited to the genitals. It is a sensation that takes the whole body and begins in the brain through desire, which is stimulated by the sense organs and the imagination. It is in the brain that the person releases the sexual act.

The first sexual discoveries happen through masturbation, but this practice is much more accepted among boys. In a way, it is also less mysterious among men, since the male sexual anatomy is external and so they have more contact with their genitals and easier to stimulate them. For the woman to know her genitals, she needs to explore them and some women come across taboos, not uncommon being the total ignorance of their sexual anatomy. The sexual response cycle has four stages. It begins with desire, passes into the growing excitement, reaches orgasm and ends in a refractory period called resolution. Desire in man is precocious and tends to happen more spontaneously, which leads to peak arousal in a short time, while the woman needs to be more stimulated to move from desire to arousal. The woman can initiate sexual intercourse without spontaneous desire, but motivated by physical approximation, affection or intimacy by the partner and thus also experience all phases of the sexual response cycle.

Pleasure, but unusual ...

According to a survey conducted in Brazil, a third of Brazilian women never reached orgasm by penetration or self-stimulation. It is important to think that not all women value this pleasure and for some not even sex is a priority in their lives. Although the female orgasm is a moment of intense pleasure, it is possible that the woman is also satisfied in her absence.

Sexual satisfaction is associated with the result and not with surrender. The pressure to reach orgasm only makes the experience even more difficult since the person stops connecting to the present moment and the sensations involved and often seeks the orgasm as an objective of the sexual relation. Thus, difficulties related to sexual intimacy begin to appear and even sex becomes less spontaneous and satisfying.

Many women do not tell their partner how they feel, how they would like to be stimulated, or pretend to orgasm out of shame, fear of losing the other person's interest, or of the rupture of the relation. These behaviors are of no help in improving the sex life since they do not include the indispensable participation of the partner. It is of no use to have a caring, caring, and sexually attractive partner, if the mind is filled with thoughts of sabotage, taboos or preoccupied with other issues.

For the sexual life to be full and pleasurable, it is important that there is companionship and partnership throughout the sexual act and that both the woman and the partner are interested in one's own satisfaction and that of the other. Therefore, if the couple has a good communication, both can say how they would like to be stimulated and could propose changes and novelties to the relationship making it much more satisfactory.


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